Letting him lead

I'm struggling with letting Jeff lead us through this trial with the church. He is listening to my input.. but I'm worried that we will miss what God wants. Jeff wants to stay here and minister to the youth. That is what I want to do too.. if God is leading us to do that.

I know that both of us have our own fleshly desires in this. Mine is to move back home, go to our old church, and renew friendships and relationships with family. I realize that it may not be what God wants, and I know that He will give me the grace I need to deal with it if it's not His will for our life.

I am not so sure that Jeff will hear clearly. I mean, I know how much he wants this to work here, and to be used in the lives of these teens again. It's not a bad thing.. but if we're not supposed to be here.. *sigh*

I feel as if we've spent our lives just missing God, and I don't want to do it again. Not only am I weary of it, but I feel that time on this rock is short, and we may not get another chance..

How can I let him lead, without getting in the way of what God may be doing?